Here's the line...I wish to be peaceful, and to trade my time and resources with other folks. Anyone who isn't (roughly) in the anarchist position wants to pay thugs with guns to come rough up me, my family or my friends for the crime of disagreeing about which plants to grow in my garden...or where to wear hats...or from not responding to extortion with proper submissiveness.
It's awful hard for a libertarian to not see the world in 2 categories:
pro-freedom...and apologists for thugs.
Kent McManigal has the same theme, but louder.